Thanksgiving Anxiety Support Plan for Maryland and D.C. Families
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Thanksgiving can be warm and joyful. It can also feel intense. Travel, big meals, and long talks can turn up anxiety for many people. This guide gives you a simple plan for the week before the holiday, the day itself, and the days after. You will get clear steps, short scripts, and a checklist you can use right away. You will also find links to trusted resources and ways Unique Minds Behavioral Health Services can help in Maryland and Washington, D.C.

The National Institute of Mental Health explains that social anxiety involves strong fear in settings where a person may feel judged or watched. It is common and treatable. Care can include therapy and sometimes medicine. You can read more on the NIMH nimh.nih.gov
Unique Minds Behavioral Health Services offers psychiatric evaluations, medication management, and therapy with both in person and telehealth options. Explore services and book when you are ready.
Your Thanksgiving week plan
Think of the week as three parts. Before. During. After.
Three to five days before Thanksgiving
Map the weekOpen your calendar and sketch each day. Mark travel, meals, work hours, and bedtimes. Share it with the family so everyone sees the same plan.
Learn the basics togetherRead a short overview of social anxiety. Talk about what triggers feel like and what helps. A shared language lowers stress. See the NIMH guide. nimh.nih.gov
Pick two moments to focus onChoose the two times that cause the most stress. Many people pick arrival time and the meal. We will shape both.
Build a reset menuList three quick actions that help. Slow breathing. A short walk. Sipping water. The CDC lists breathing, movement, sleep, and gratitude as simple tools that support emotional health. Pick two and practice now. CDC
Create a calm kitAdd ear plugs, a soft layer, tissues, water, and any medicine as prescribed. Put it by the door so it travels with you.
Share the plan with the hostSend a short note. We keep talks brief and take short breaks. Is there a quiet spot we can step into for a few minutes. Thank you.
One day before
Practice two scriptsGreeting. It is nice to see you. Break. Excuse me for a moment. Keep sentences short.
Confirm travel help if neededIf airport screening is stressful, use TSA Cares for extra support. You can call the helpline or request help online. Transportation Security Administration+1
Set sleep and foodHold a steady bedtime. Eat a simple snack before you arrive. Low sleep and low blood sugar can make anxiety feel stronger.
If you need extra support before the day, a focused visit can help. Learn about psychiatric evaluations and medication management with our team. You can meet in person or by video. uniquembhs.com+1
Day of thanksgiving anxiety plan
Arrive during a calm window
Aim for a time when the room is not at peak volume. Greet the host. Find a seat near a door or a quiet corner.
Start with one minute of breathing
Inhale for four. Exhale for six. Repeat five times. This simple step helps the body settle. The CDC highlights slow breathing and steady sleep and movement as helpful stress tools. CDC
Use short scripts
Simple lines are easier to say when stress is high.
We are happy to be here.
It is nice to see you.
Excuse me for a moment.
Thank you for having us. We are heading out now.
Shape the environment
Lower noise if you can. Offer ear plugs. Keep bright lights soft. Seat near an exit to allow easy breaks.
Plan two short breaks
Take a two to five minute break every hour. Step outside if weather allows. Stretch shoulders. Sip water. These micro resets protect energy.
Keep food safe and simple
If you cook turkey at home, use a food thermometer. The USDA says 165 degrees Fahrenheit is the safe minimum internal temperature for turkey. Check the thickest parts to be sure. Food Safety and Inspection Servic
If you want care that fits your needs, see our services page or explore individual therapy options. You can choose in person or telehealth.
What to do if anxiety spikes
Spot early signs
Look for shallow breathing, a tight jaw, fidgeting, or scanning the room. These can be cues to take a break.
One minute reset
Stand with both feet on the floor. Breathe in for four and out for six. Name five things you see, four you feel, and three you hear. Keep it simple.
Take a quiet break
Use your signal. Step into a calm room or outside. Loosen tight clothes. Drink water. Return only when ready.
If panic continues
Leave early and protect sleep. A calm exit beats a long push past limits. If spikes happen often or block daily life, it may be time for care. Our team can support you with therapy or exposure based work for social fears. uniquembhs.com
Travel plan for busy hubs
Pack the calm kit in your carry onInclude headphones, a soft layer, and simple snacks.
Use airport supportCall TSA Cares or submit a form. Ask for a Passenger Support Specialist at screening if needed. Transportation Security Administration+1
Schedule stretch breaksSet a timer for brief walks every thirty to forty five minutes.
Keep a small visual schedule on your phoneNext steps are easy to see and follow.
Caring communication tips for families
Lead with empathySay I know this is a big day. I am with you.
Ask one thing at a timeIf the person pauses, wait. Move to a light topic when needed.
Praise effortNotice small wins. You came in. You took a break. You stayed for dessert.
Protect your own energyTake your own short breaks. Set a clear end time. A steady helper is more effective than an exhausted one.
If you want a guide to group work or skills based therapy, see our group therapy page and other therapy services. uniquembhs.com
After Thanksgiving care
Debrief the next day
Ask what helped and what felt hard. Save notes for the next event.
Reset the body
Walk outside. Stretch. Keep bedtime steady. Write down three good moments from the day. The CDC offers simple steps to manage stress and support emotional health. CDC
Keep light practice going
Pick one small social task each week. A short phone call. A quick store visit. A library stop. Small steps keep skills fresh without overload.
If feelings become heavy or you notice signs of depression or constant worry, reach out. A psychiatric evaluation can open a clear plan. Medication management and therapy can help. You can start with a consultation. Thanksgiving anxiety.
When to get urgent help
If someone talks about self harm or suicide, act now. In the United States you can call or text 988 or chat online to reach trained counselors all day and night. If there is immediate danger, call your local emergency number at once. 988 Lifeline
How Unique Minds Behavioral Health Services can help
We serve Maryland and Washington, D.C. with in person and telehealth care. Our team offers psychiatric evaluations, medication management, and therapy options tailored to your needs. Explore our services and location pages to see how care works near you. You can book online when you are ready.
Quick checklist you can print
Make a simple plan for each day
Practice two short scripts
Pack a calm kit and bring water
Use two micro breaks every hour
Keep meals and sleep steady
Seat near an exit for easy breaks
Thank the host and leave on time
Debrief the next day and rest
Trusted external resources
NIMH social anxiety overview https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/social-anxiety-disorder-more-than-just-shyness
CDC stress and emotional health tips https://www.cdc.gov/mental-health/living-with/index.html
TSA Cares program https://www.tsa.gov/travel/tsa-cares and request form https://www.tsa.gov/contact-center/form/cares
USDA turkey safetyhttps://www.fsis.usda.gov/food-safety/safe-food-handling-and-preparation/poultry/turkey-basics-safe-cooking and https://www.foodsafety.gov/food-safety-charts/safe-minimum-internal-temperatures
988 Suicide and Crisis Lifelinehttps://988lifeline.org/

